Feel seen, celebrated, and at ease on your wedding day — with thoughtful words and steady presence.
I guide couples through an intentional process so your ceremony feels genuine and deeply meaningful.
Now booking weddings across New Jersey
Your Guide to a Ceremony That Feels Like You
I'm an actor, writer, and Jewish educator who brings confidence, warmth, and intention to every ceremony I lead.
I work with LGBTQ+, secular, and interfaith couples across New Jersey to craft ceremonies that reflect your values, your story, and your joy.
Choose the package that fits your vision
From beautifully simple to fully customized
Streamlined ceremony for intimate gatherings
Fully customized ceremony built together
Premium experience with ritual design and rehearsal support
Not sure which package is right for you?
Schedule a Free ConsultationSimple, warm, and designed to make you feel supported.
Start by filling out the inquiry form on the Contact page. Share your date, location, and what you're hoping your ceremony will feel like. I'll respond within 24–48 hours to let you know if I'm available.
If I'm available, we'll schedule a short consultation call. This is a chance for us to meet, talk about your vision, and make sure we're a great fit. I'll help you choose the ceremony experience that matches what you're looking for.
Once you're ready to move forward, I'll send a contract and invoice. Your date is officially reserved when the signed agreement and retainer are received.
You'll complete a planning questionnaire and we'll have one or more planning conversations. You'll share your story, values, and any traditions you want to include. I'll use this to begin crafting your ceremony.
You'll receive a draft of your ceremony to review. One round of revisions is included so we can fine-tune the details and make sure it feels just right.
I'll arrive early, coordinate with your venue and vendors, and guide your ceremony with calm, warmth, and confidence—so your love can truly take center stage.
I'll take care of filing your marriage license and send you a final congratulations. From there, all that's left is to celebrate being married.
I take a limited number of ceremonies each year so every couple gets the care and attention they deserve.
Where your love takes center stage
More than an officiant—a partner in creating a ceremony that truly represents you
"Every love story deserves to be told with care, creativity, and intention."
— Ariel Schwarzer, Officiant
Hear from real couples
"Ariel was so amazing! We decided to get married right off the water in Hoboken. We wanted something short and sweet with a hand fastening in the ceremony. He had no problems with our requests. He was funny, loving, and made our elopement so sweet!"
Leena Lopez
Elopement Ceremony • Hoboken, NJ
"I could not have hoped for a more warm, mirthful person to officiate my special day with my wife. That Ariel did it with such detail and thoughtfulness for our union is a welcome bonus, though I'm sure he'd tell you that's all part of the package! Highly recommend his services."
Mathew Lopez
Elopement Ceremony • Hoboken, NJ
Ready to create your own meaningful ceremony?
Check Your DateYour wedding ceremony should be as unique as your love story. I'm here to make that happen.
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